went with
TekTonic - Hosting - VPS - VDS - Virtual Servers - Virtual Private Servers - Virtual Dedicated Servers - Virtuozzo Hosting, as they are the only ones i with a managed VPS .
me not knowing upgrades, software and all was a good option, less work and worries on my part.
TekTonic - Hosting - VPS - VDS - Virtual Servers - Virtual Private Servers - Virtual Dedicated Servers - Virtuozzo Hosting is the managed plans page - we use the power VPS plan.
moving and set up was quite simple - the problems, questions and everything we had was resolved very quickly by them - DNS - and settings as did not need everything they had on the server.
( under 30 minutes via chat - 3 hours in a support ticket -
--> and they fixed it, and let me know what to do if it happened again
havent' had to go back into it to do anything , so far there has been here with no problems.
currently have 3 sites on the VPS - all for this main one - demo, test site and will be adding another test site for that many softwares we have that we wish to support, be nice to use them here but